介護で一番困ること・・・!
介護で一番困ること・・・!
それは、認知症じゃないかなぁ・・・ね!話をわかっているようで、全く理解してないしね!話したことだって、２時間もすれば、記憶から削除だぞう・・・ね!それどころか、自分子供を見ても、わからない。火事や地震の災害を考えると、家も外から鍵をかけるわけにもいかないしねぇ・・!お風呂にも、入りたがらないし・・ね!着替えも・・・ね!おむつの交換もねぇ・・・!
でね、ゴンは考えた!
１．まずは、自分が疲れないようにする。
２．介護を受ける者の、安全を第一とする。
３．介護を受ける者の、人としての尊厳を尊重する。
とすると、
徘徊は、仕方ないか?GPSを持たせて対応かな?ただ、道の真ん中を歩いたり、走っている自動車に抱きついて行ったりするようだったら、やっぱり、家の外からカギをかけるね。
また、お風呂も着替えもおむつも・・・本人の希望を最優先する。ただ他人が来宅して汚れてしまうようなことがあれば、強制的にでも仕方ないかなぁ・・・!
これでも、施設より、ましだと思うね!だって、施設から帰ってきた仏様を見て思ったんだ、"なんでこんなに小さいんたって"・・・ね!
ただ、ゴンは施設に反対じゃないね、在宅の場合、医療介護の一部を家の者が行わなくてはならないからです。だれでも、できるわけじゃないし・・・、限界を感じたら、ね!
でもね、「介護を受ける者を捨てることは、介護をする者を捨てる」ことでもあるんだ!すべてを捨てて、そこから再生する、その覚悟ができればだぞう!
＊アナ＊
2017/03/30 21:43:17
That's interesting advice. I'll try!
＊アナ＊
2017/03/29 20:58:56
Yikes! That's terrible! Aww... >.<
＊アナ＊
2017/03/27 21:45:11
Hm! It's 17°C today. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/27 00:41:49
Wow, snow? In the spring? There's a high of 17°C today! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/26 00:49:20
I dislike taking baths, and I think most Americans do. Definitely a cultural difference!
＊アナ＊
2017/03/24 21:38:44
Oh, thanks! I'll look at those~. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/22 20:58:52
Oh, cool! ^.^ I don't really keep up with sports. My mom watches baseball, though. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/21 21:00:18
Ooh, cool! I just love cherry blossoms. ^^ I wish they grew here.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/20 20:58:05
You're welcome. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/20 01:19:09
American high school has a spring break, but it's very short, only a few days! We get the time off to celebrate Easter with family.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/18 22:08:22
Oh, I see. I think my mom has that problem.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/18 05:55:45
Yeah, recently I keep waking up during the night. >.< Thanks Gon.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/16 21:38:26
Cool~. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/15 21:40:59
Lol. I dislike tests, too~.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/14 21:40:14
I love watching Tangled in Japanese! ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/13 20:54:29
Cool! Our school graduation ceremony is in May, I think. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/13 00:48:33
The weather here has been pretty wacky lately. It seems like spring is coming, and then it suddenly starts snowing again! It's pretty weird to get snow in March. I hope it will warm up again soon so that I can go to the playground. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/11 23:04:48
Thomas is definitely the pleasure of my life. He's my best friend, and he's always there for me no matter what. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/10 22:28:03
Thomas says he's going to get me something for White Day. ^.^ Most Americans don't know about White Day, so I taught Thomas about it. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/09 22:47:18
I like listening to music, but it's embarrassing to sing in front of people.
About 66% of Americans go to college. High school is required education, so we all go to high school.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/08 22:37:19
I see~. Personally, I never dance at all. People just laugh at me. O.o
＊アナ＊
2017/03/07 22:44:16
Japanese people usually can't dance? Interesting! At least in Japanese high schools they have events like school festivals. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/07 00:04:11
Cool! ^.^ Spring is coming~.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/06 00:24:58
Oh, I see~. Hopefully the fish population will be restored~!
＊アナ＊
2017/03/04 23:12:48
Thanks~. ^.^ For some reason, it always shows the same avatar picture next to my comments...
I think it went well enough. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/03 22:37:59
Cool! I want to try 甘酒. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/03/02 22:34:10
Cool! ^.^ I've ridden a horse before, but only slowly. I would fall off if it started galloping, lol.
＊アナ＊
2017/03/01 22:49:07
Yes~! ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/28 22:38:32
There are colleges that offer Japanese in Illinois, though they're still hours away from home. We'll have to see if I can actually afford to go to them...
＊アナ＊
2017/02/27 22:45:47
Oh, I'm not beautiful~. ^^ Sounds cool!
＊アナ＊
2017/02/27 00:48:15
I like to eat white rice. With chopsticks. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/25 23:09:14
I've never even heard of tuna steak! Here, we eat tuna in a chopped up form on sandwiches.
＊アナ＊
2017/02/24 22:31:52
Oh, I see~. ^.^ I'm such a picky eater; I probably wouldn't like it. :/
＊アナ＊
2017/02/24 03:15:12
Oh, that's cool~. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/22 22:34:48
Instead of "Yoshi of the pet" you should say "your pet Yoshi".
He's fine. Super cute as always. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/21 22:33:49
Oh, I see~. I don't really like deep fried foods. Chicken nuggets are very common here!
＊アナ＊
2017/02/21 01:01:53
Oh, that's cool. ^.^ Are chicken nuggets an uncommon food in Japan?
＊アナ＊
2017/02/20 00:35:49
Wow, snow in February! Here, it's going to be 21°C today. Which is pretty weird, too. O.o
＊アナ＊
2017/02/18 23:05:20
It's a common mistake; don't worry about it. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/17 22:33:19
I'm glad it was recovered! ^^
Apparently today it's going to be 21°C! And it will be nice for the next few days, too. ^^
Btw, you should say "since yesterday". Not "from yesterday".
＊アナ＊
2017/02/15 22:02:42
Have a nice day~! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/14 22:33:33
Happy Valentine's Day~! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/13 22:35:46
Hi, I'm fine~. ^^
Yeah, Thomas is my friend from Australia. ^^ He's kind of like my big brother!
＊アナ＊
2017/02/13 00:02:32
On Sundays, I like to text my friend Thomas and play on the computer. ^^ I mostly stay home~.
＊アナ＊
2017/02/11 23:33:56
I log on to Nicotto Town on my phone every day, but I usually only go on my desktop computer on weekends when I don't have homework.
＊アナ＊
2017/02/10 21:57:31
Yay, no school! ^.^ I wish I got off of school for that day. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/09 21:53:09
It snowed here yesterday. ^^ It's freezing~!
＊アナ＊
2017/02/08 22:00:30
Thanks! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/07 22:03:21
No, I'm really shy so I have a hard time making friends. >.< It's a small class, so I'll probably get the chance to talk to her!
＊アナ＊
2017/02/06 22:00:57
Winter is my favorite season, but I love spring too! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/06 02:35:24
I'll do my best. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/04 22:54:33
It was only a one-day test, but the teacher hasn't gotten around to grading it yet.
＊アナ＊
2017/02/03 21:54:26
I'm bad at not worrying, but I'll try. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/02/02 21:41:51
I'll try~.
＊アナ＊
2017/02/01 21:56:28
It was a history test. I don't think I did very well on it. >.< I can't take a test again if I don't pass it. It's the rules~.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/31 22:04:24
Cool! I don't like fish, but I think it would be fun to go there. ^^
Yeah, so far a lot of people in America are freaking out about Trump. Apparently he's got a high disapproval rating already.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/30 22:06:20
Yes, I love to learn. ^^
Yup, I use the metric system~. Most Americans don't understand it all, so I am a rare case!
＊アナ＊
2017/01/30 00:11:11
It was fun. We talked about how to say really big numbers, and we each said how tall we were in centimeters when people started talking about the metric system. I already know most of the information that the teacher teaches, but I learn something new every time. ^^ It's very fun. The teacher said my pronunciation was good!
＊アナ＊
2017/01/28 22:43:45
Right now I'm getting ready to head off to the Japanese Classroom! ワクワクしてるよ♪＾＾
＊アナ＊
2017/01/27 22:26:58
Thanks for telling me the word for it! ^^ The time in the building across from the Japanese school was the first time I saw it that I can remember. Which was why I was in such awe. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/26 21:58:20
Ooh, a cake! Sounds so fun~. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/25 21:52:27
Cool! Have fun! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/24 21:59:24
Haha! ^^ It is very beautiful. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/23 21:59:24
Oh, I see. I think people in the U.S. find sumo to be kinda funny for some reason. I'm not very interested in any sports myself. The popular sports around here seem to be baseball, (American) football, and basketball.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/23 01:29:46
Ah, do a lot of Japanese people like sumo? I've never seen the appeal.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/21 21:56:45
Oh, cool. I wondered what that straw thing was when I saw it in the shop. I hadn't seen it before. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/20 21:56:09
Lol, maybe. I don't know much about Donald Duck's personality.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/19 21:57:04
Thanks, Gon. ^^ You stay healthy, too!
＊アナ＊
2017/01/18 21:56:44
Oh, yes, it is. ^^
It's too late! I've already caught a cold! Achoo!
＊アナ＊
2017/01/17 22:37:32
What do you mean by, "How about Japanese language classes?" Are you asking how they're going? It's been snowing so much recently that we haven't been able to have class. >.<
Yeah, my teacher is female.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/17 00:19:25
Oh, cool! Thanks. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/16 00:45:18
Oh, that's cool. ^.^ But my name isn't アナスタシヤ; it's アナスタシア.
I still hardly know any kanji, but I'll get to learn some in Japanese school this year. ^^
It's stopped snowing here, and it's very icy.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/15 02:09:18
Hm, I'm not sure~. I'm still not good with kanji. >.<
＊アナ＊
2017/01/14 02:20:28
All of those sentences are fine.
I don't think I'm any of those things, lol.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/12 22:33:34
History is one of my worst subjects. If it were Japanese history, I'd surely enjoy it. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/11 22:35:19
Cool! ^.^ Horses are very nice. I rode one once when I was little. I like to feed them carrots. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/10 22:43:25
Hm, have a nice year! ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/09 22:39:26
Hm, I've never tried fishing, either. Fishing in Nicotto Town is pretty easy. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/09 07:51:47
Cool, I've never tried skiing. ^.^
Btw, you cannot say, "I play ski." You can say, "I like to ski," or, "I ski." ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/07 22:36:48
Cool! Do you like to ski in real life, too? ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/06 21:48:26
That's nice. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/05 22:00:45
Pretty clothes? No, I guess not. Lol. ^^
Yup! I use them a lot. ^.^ My dad thinks my friends and I use them too much!
＊アナ＊
2017/01/05 01:11:43
Winter break felt a lot shorter than in past years. I wish it were a little longer! But yeah, I kinda enjoyed it. I go back to school tomorrow. >.<
I'm not sure I understand your question... We don't have school uniforms, if that's what you're asking. I wear a t-shirt and jeans most of the time.
I can't possibly enjoy school~. Lol.
＊アナ＊
2017/01/04 01:00:50
No, I don't have one. Sounds pretty. ^.^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/03 00:37:52
Thank you for visiting! Yes, the bread is very big; how does it fit in anyone's stomach? Lol. ^^
＊アナ＊
2017/01/01 02:22:47
Thank you, Gon! Happy New Year! ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/31 01:48:43
Oh, yay! Enjoy your osechi ryouri! ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/30 00:59:36
Haha. ^^ Shiwasu, that's funny~. ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/29 07:06:01
That sounds very pretty. ^^ We've had a somewhat warm winter; it rained today.
＊アナ＊
2016/12/28 00:49:17
Yoshi is a cute, happy dog as always. ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/27 04:09:44
I've heard of 君の名は。, though I haven't gotten around to watching it yet. I really should. ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/26 00:22:37
Thanks, Gon-chan! I will do my best at Japanese! ^^
＊アナ＊
2016/12/25 02:07:48
Yes, I remember you! Merry Christmas! ^^
コロポックル
2016/12/24 18:42:49
ガンバリすぎるならダメだと思います。
ボケちゃったら介護を一人ではできません。
施設で看てもらえるなら考慮はアリだと思います。
施設に入っていただいても介護を捨てるとは思いません。
徘徊や暴力があるなら24時間介護になります。
家族に24時間の介護はできません。
ガンバリすぎると介護者も介護を受ける方も倒れます。
なので、ガンバリすぎずにお願いいたします。おねがい。
りりか
2016/11/29 18:22:12
さっきはありがとうございました
いつもスキー場で またまた思い違いしてしまってww
タウンのアルバム探して ない ！！ない！！どうしよってｗｗ
今見たら 部屋の中のアルバムに撮影したのが 入ってましたｗ
またブログに乗せさせてくださいね ｍｍ
こういの楽しみにしています＾＾
またね＾＾
十六夜 由加利
2016/09/20 18:19:16
訪問感謝(੭ु´･ω･`)੭ु⁾⁾
ひとみ
2016/06/11 06:16:16
ゴンさん、尊敬しますー頑張ってくださいねー
＊アナ＊
2016/04/23 23:50:11
See ya~. ^^
Peeちゃん
2016/04/21 06:19:55
ごんちゃん！頑張り過ぎてないの？
共倒れにならないようにだぞぉ〜‼️
餅屋もちやに助けて貰う事も必要だよ。
割り切る事なんか出来ないだろうけどね。
私も徘徊老人を見つけて、住所、電話番号持ってたけど、電話が繋がらないから申し訳ないな、と思いつつ110したよ！
後でお巡りさんから「ちゃんと家の人にお渡ししましたよ。連絡してくれてありがとう！」って言われて、ホッとしたもん！
事故に遭ったら大変だろうけど、皆んなで助け会わなきゃいけない世の中だと思うよ。
あたしゃ、たまに愚痴聞くしかできないんで、偉そうな事言えんけどね〜！
6月に１年ぶりに91歳の父に会いに行くよ。
メールで話せるだけ幸せな親子だね。
サファイヤ
2016/04/19 23:04:20
こんばんは～！
毎日 ごんちゃんさん頑張っているのね。
偉いな～！ッて思います。